What makes us cool or accepted? Is it our age? Is it the way we look? Is it our intelligence? Is it perhaps our sense of humour? How are we perceived?
Have you ever wondered? Does it really matter? Should you even care?
What is a loser? Who decides? Is it the majority?
What if it is a majority of losers that is deciding? lol
We are all insecure, all trying to love and to be loved. Why is it that we give so much importance to what other people think of us? Why is it that people can be so cruel sometimes?
If you are lonely, if you have ever felt left out, well then read on. All these questions and more are questions that matter, they matter because they affect our self confidence and can affect our emotions. These are questions that start mattering at the teen years, but honestly they never really stop hunting us. So instead of sticking our head in the ground like an ostrich, lol, lets stop running away from these questions and face them head on.
Sometimes people find friends in their teen years that last a life time. Sometimes people find friends in their teen years and then they move on, and lose contact with those people and never see them again. Sometimes you make friends and you think they care about you, and then something happens and you realize that those people that you cared so much about, were not worth your time.
Nothing is a guarantee in life, and when are dealing with other humans it's not a sure science. So what should we do? How can we find happiness? Peace? Joy?
I think the key to a happy life, is to have total trust in God and confidence in the fact that everything changes. If today things are good , if you have friends - well enjoy! And do not worry about the future. If today you are lonely and feel rejected by others, well have hope and remember that things don't last forever. Situations change, things turn around and before you know it, you are out of the dark.
God never gives us more that what we can handle, and if we trust in Him, everything that happens can be for our good. It all can help us grow in holiness and in virtue. Don't give up, keep hoping regardless of how your situation looks like and you will be alright.
In this life there are ups and downs. Nothing is written in stone. Everything changes, if you give enough time. Remember you were made perfect, there is only one of you, you are full of gifts and if people can not see that - well that is their loss. If they do not appreciate you, if people don't get you, remember you are valuable and move on.
You don't need people that do not understand how precious you are. Who needs that? Get busy, distract yourself and before you know it you will find people that deserve you, and that place where you fit perfectly.
The Bible says do not give pearls to pigs or holy things to dogs. Why? Because they will destroy them. If you are hurting or you feel rejected, remember it may not be you that needs to change, it might not be you who is broken, it might be that you simply need to pick better friends.
It is better to be alone for a while, than in bad company!